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female
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anonymous
writes:Last night my boyfriend was acting unusual so I asked him lets discuss what was going on . So we begin to talk and he tes me he doesnt wanna be in a relationship because he cant deal with it and it is impossible for him to just talk to one girl.So I asked him was I the only girl he is talking to and he said know , which I already had a bad instinct about. .Then he begins talkin about how he doesnt want my heart or his heart broken. He said "True enough I love you but my ex still has my heart"..but he "LOVES"me though I dont understand. So after that we got off the phone because I felt nothing else needed to be sad.Today he seen me at school and grabbed my waist but we just gave each other a strange look. He also said he felt threatned by me because I told him earlier in the relatiknship I dont want him breaking my heart again because there isnt any telling what I might do. I still love him so much but my heart is just so broken. Is he still in love with me?If he comes back this 3rd time should I allow him back in my life?
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reader, YouWish +, writes (7 January 2012):
 Ahh geeze. This guy is immature and doesn't know what he wants. If you stay with him or bother with him in any way now, knowing that you don't want your heart broken anymore, then that's simply masochistic.
The way to protect your heart is to not allow yourself to be a second choice in any way, shape or form. His words "love" mean nothing if he's wanting to pursue an ex. He's an idiot if he thinks that acting this way will make him happy in any way, because word about someone being a player travels fast.
Don't be afraid to mourn the relationship. It's like pulling an emotional sliver out of your heart. Make the break, go your separate ways, and find someone who doesn't have a hangup about a previous girlfriend.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (7 January 2012):
 No I do not think you should allow him back in to your life. He has made it clear he still has feelings for his ex, but on top of that he is at the stage where he wants to play the field a bit and be a typical boy. He does not want to be tied down and he was scared how far this would go so he broke it of. Yes he may love you, but he is IN love with his ex and he needs time to process that and play around until he can get his head clear again, if you let him back in to your life, you are setting yourself up for a broken heart. He needs time to find himself, so you need to let go and look elsewhere am afraid.
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