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writes: i'm hopelessly inlove with a boy in school !!! one day i told him i'm inlove with him and he replied to me that it's just okey. and then few days later i offered him a snack after school he gladly received it then the second time i gave him food he refused to. why is that so? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2005): Hun, try hard to not be "hopelessly" in love with this boy. He sounds very immature and likes calling the shots because he knows how you feel about him. What do those character traits tell you about him? By accepting your snack one time and then refusing another time..he may be just stringing you along and playing with your emotions. Some young guys do this-they figure they have "it made in the shade", hun and they are mini-players. If you are strong and can ignore him for awhile, your feelings will change. Spend time with good, trusted friends who treat you with respect and look for those qualities in any boy who wants to date you. In the future, don't be over anxious to make boys like you, by telling them you "love" them and giving them things. That makes you look needy and desperate. Keep your self-pride and make potential boyfriend's "work hard" for you because you are worth it, girl! Good luck and have a Merry Christmas.
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reader, Mr.Ed +, writes (23 December 2005):
 Just keep being his friend and it should work out in the end. Good luck. Ed
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