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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i met this guy last year.somewhere in february.at first,i dont even find him charming or even sweet and cute.but since he started messaging me in june when i was on a vacation,i feel attracted to him.at that time,he had a really beautiful girlfriend.i was supportive with his relationship.then he broke up with his girl.then,we became closer.almost everynight he messages me.asking me stupid-stupid things.well,i like it.we started going out together.me and my gang too.last week,i broke up with my boyfriend.in order to breakup with him,i told him that im with my bestfriend.OMG!for no reason,my boyfriend message my friend and ask whether is it true that we are together.my besrfriend said no.he said that he's other girlfriend is prettier that me and its like as is he had no other work that to be an item with me.i was heartbroken.but i still am in love with him.tell me what to do so that he will at least like me more than just a friend???
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2008): Meh. They both sound like losers.
I know it's hard but I think you should distance yourself from both.
Someone who really loved you would not see you as "less beautiful". He's a jerk. Do you really want to be stuck with a jerk?
Just wait..some other, better guy, will come around, and see you as the most gorgeous creature to ever grace the earth ^_^ Don't you think you'd rather be with him than with a loser?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2008): Firstly , beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Secondly, she might be pretty but you might have much more personality, class and style.
I suggest you accept what has happened, be "cool" and calm about it, that way you will proof you are a girl with dignity. Be friendly as if nothing has happened. Do not discuss your feelings with friends, just play it "cool" and be yourself.
I honestly don't think you are in love with the guy, it might feel like that to you now, but start thinking about a few thinks to do to keep busy with your friends and soon you might forget about this guy and meet somebody new.
Hopefully somebody that will love you and treat you with respect.
Remember, that is what you deserve from a guy, love and respect!
Good luck.
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