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writes:The two of us are matured and understand our responsibilities towards our families. Yet, he badly feels he loves me and wants to have romantic relations. For me, i understand,it is wrong. But i really feel good the way he speaks about boosting me up, his remarks,his comments,his suggestions have always filled me with greatest confidence and success everywhere.His endless wishes for me really changed my bad lucks and turned them into gud ones.Whenever i try to avoid him, i feel like helpless and missing something heavenly.I find nobody to guide me truly at times of difficulties.And have very many experiences of being benefitted because of his company,his guidance. I have several times tried to avoid him, but always when we contacted back ,it became more and more intense.The more i try to avoid him the more stronger it gets. What to do ?He says this is love. To me,he is not prior to my hubby,but the intensity i get from him is far far more than that from my hubby.If i am to choose one,that would surely b my hubby,but i dont want that guy's total absence also from my life. Is it so because of love with him and a feel of resposibility with hubby? Can anybody clear it ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2011): you have written in many times about your "spiritual " healer. it is time to cut him off from your life. if you want to worship someone, let it be GOD.
this "spiritualist" is just playing on your insecurities. he knows that you seek him out to "better your life". he did not turn your luck around. God has answered all your prayers and HE has gotten you out of all your problems. NOT THIS MAN!!!!!
this man wants to have sex with you. he is abusing his "spiritual" power. has he also done this to other women as well, all in the name of HEALING?????
A TRUE STORY: in our area one of these "holier than thou" spiritualists coerced a young lady to have sex with him. she went to him for help - for guidance and healing, and he used his influence and power over her, and coerced her to have sex with him. this woman later reported him to police and he was charged for rape. when the scandal broke out the "spiritualist" committed suicide because of the disgrace.
OP, i have repeated given you advice to becareful of this man. I think the other Aunts here as well have. You want to repay him with sex for helping you through your troubles. This man is nothing more than a CON ARTIST.
IF you want to betray your hb and cheat well, that is left up to you. when you lose your home and your reputation then you only have yourself to blame.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (14 July 2011):
 If you would chose your husband over this man well then no it is not true love. I think you get a thrill out of it because it is new and exciting and it is dangerous. Therefore this makes you feel alive and good about yourself. But it is a very dangerous road you are going down and someone is going to end up getting hurt. If you love your husband and want to spend your life with him well then that's good. But you will only end up cheating on him if you keep this other man in your life and you will hurt him. So you really need to make up your mind about who you want.
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reader, VSAddict  +, writes (14 July 2011):
 You're married so leave the guy alone. There's a reason why you married your husband...recall it and work on your marriage. Unless you just don't feel the same about your husband, then leave him. But don't ruin your marriage for this fling. You already have but it can be fixed if you're willing to leave this guy alone and give yourself to your husband. I'm sure your husband can make you feel as confident and happy as this man can, so give him a chance to and leave the other guy for good.
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