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I love him but ever since our encounter he's been with other girls sexually!

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Question - (23 September 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 September 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm 19yrs old my best friend and I have known each other for about 2years. I enjoy being around him, we have hold hands and told each other I Love You before. A while back we were both under the influence and he spend the night at my house. I slept in the floor and he slept in my bed. I was caressing his hand and he said "stop your getting me horny" after that he asked me if he can do me anal and I said yes. so he pulled out his cock and he tried doint me anal but I refused to do it because it was hurting. so we kissed and jacked off but did not cum so we went to bed. the following day i went off to my soccer game and came back and we both pretended like nothing had happen. About 3weeks ago we were out partying and after we left the party we were both drunk. I approach him i felt on his cock and I pulled it out. I gave him head and he asked for me to drive him home. I said "please don't tell anyone about this and he said "i will keep this between us" then he asked me if I was horny and I said yes. So he gave me head for a little bit. he then replied that we would finish this some other day and he promised. The following day he didn't mention anything about it and now IM in LOVE WITH HIM. What should I do? I want to try more with him but I don't want to loose his friendship as I care for him a lot. Ever since this happen his been messing with a lot of girls sexually. What should I do? I've tried stop talking to him but it hurts me really bad not seeing him or talking to him.

Any advice will help me out a lot.

Thanks for your time

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A female reader, patient66 Canada +, writes (23 September 2009):

Hello : )

Not talking about it is not the way to go. It leaves a lot of questions unanswered and it won't go away. I know it sucks to have to talk to him about it, but be blunt and truthful. Get the courage to speak your mind and go for it.

The outcome may not be what you want but at least your not sitting there wondering. Remember if it turns out he was just curious or whatever, Know that you will find someone who cares enough to to stick around after.

Good Luck xo

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