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*evil_dolly
writes:im in love with a girl whos straight , she said shes attracted to me, the first night i met her she stayed at mine with me and we just cuddled all night , after that i didnt hear off her other then the odd messages, she invited me over to hers 2 weeks after meeting and one thing lead to another and we ended up having sex that night , as i wanted it to happen it was passionate and we both felt a connection , the next morning we just lay in bed and cuddled , when i left i asked her where does this leave us now after whats happened , her reply was my heads boggled ive been thinking about it all day and although it was great i dont think im a lesbain . i really dont know what to do or where i stand or if its worth persuing but im madly in love with her already since the day i met her she has a certain glow of her and its attractive. Its actually driving me insane as i would do anything for her. please help Reply to this Question
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reader, devil_dolly +, writes (18 March 2013):
devil_dolly is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthe title is automated she didnt say she didnt want a relationship
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reader, Intrigued3000  +, writes (16 March 2013):
 I consider myself straight (sexually and emotionally attracted to men), but I can be sexually attracted to women. Maybe it's the horn dog in me. I cannot be in a relationship with a woman, but I can have sex with a woman. The anonymous contributor is right. There is an emotional uniqueness that a man provides. Another woman cannot satisfy me in this regard.
She may try to have a relationship with you, but I have a feeling it will only be short term. A man will always be her number one choice. I'm sorry you have to be broken hearted over this. Find someone who is truly a lesbian and can give you that fulfilling relationship you crave. Consider your friend a FWB.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2013): She's made it clear where you stand OP. She enjoyed the sex but isn't a lesbian and doesn't want a relationship with you.
That's as clear as you can get really.
She didn't say whether she'd sleep with you again or whether it was a one time thing. But she has made it clear it will never amount to anything more in terms of a relationship.
OP don't mistake enjoying sex with a person as anything more when they tell you it isn't.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2013): she may be like me...
I'm bisexual, very attracted to girls sexually, but have never been able to imagine myself in a relationship with one or pursue that type of relationship. There is something about the emotional uniqueness of having a man that appeals to me, and it is very different from the type of emotions (from what i'm told) that are unique to a lesbian relationship.
so basically, perhaps she's sexually into you, likes you, but can't see herself in that relationship
now the rest of this is all me, most likely not what she's thinking: personally i'm into women that are also into my man, and am happiest in a relationship where i'm sexually complete (my man, and lady together) and emotionally complete.
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