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writes: Hey I am a guy and I’m 17 years oldRecently I have made the most special friend I have ever had. She is so special to me but every time I am with her I feel my self getting more and more close to her. I think I am starting to fall in love with her never had such a strong connection. This is where the problem comes in, I know that she likes me because she told me she did, but she has also got a boyfriend who she is engaged to and has been for about 1 to 2 months now. We are all 17 and her boyfriend is 16. But I don’t know what to do I can see their relationship has many problems, both of mine and her friends say we talk about each other loads. her mum loves me and doesnt like her boy friendi love her to bits and do not know what to do bout itthanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2006): Engaged at 17? Thats madness. I'm in my mid-twenties now and when I look back at how much Ive changed since then, I cant believe that ur friend is making such a huge committment. The best thing to do is probably be there for her as a friend and if her relationship has so many problems as u seem to think, then it will end naturally. But its upto her to come to that conclusion.....theres no harm telling her you care about her though.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2006): i knw im olnly 15 but my advice to u wuld be not to ruine ur relationship just wait to see where it leads to!! if she feels the same way bout u then maybe ur ment to be 2gether but like i said maybe u shuld just wait!!
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reader, shania  +, writes (19 June 2006):
 The ball is in her court isn't it? You are a free agent but she has a boyfriend.If this girl doesn't want to be with her fiance anymore then its down to her to end it.Have you told her how you felt?...maybe she is waiting for you to make the 1st move and tell her how you feel,otherwise you will never know.All is fair in love and war so they say...Another thing to do is to give her space and cool your friendship with her...that way she might start to miss you more then she thought she would...its a test but if you two were meant to be together then you will be.Just step back and see what she really wants.
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