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I love her, but we're friends, I don't want to ruin what we have.

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Question - (25 October 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 27 October 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I'm in love with this girl at school, but i don't know how to tell her. We're good friends but i don't want to ruin it. What should i do?

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A female reader, Benny 1494 United Kingdom +, writes (27 October 2008):

Benny 1494 agony auntIf i were you i'd just go for it.

If you're friends it shouldn't ruin anything. just tell how how you feel.

if she dost feel teh same way tell her that you don' wnat your friendship ruined by this.

i was in a very similar situation to you a few months back.

feel free to PM me ! :)

Good luck

benny xxx

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A female reader, Emi:3 United States +, writes (25 October 2008):

go ahead!! dont wrry i had the same thing happen 2 me just go and tell her that if she doesnt like you just drop it. it didnt wrk 4 me, i realized we just werent right but im glad ehs going 4 my best friends now ^^

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2008):

Hey

First try finding out if she likes you-through her friends ect.

If she does then go for it

If you don't find out then just go up and be honest with her. Tell her that you really like her, but you don't want to ruin your friendship. Be completely honest, girls usually like that, I think.

Good Luck

:)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2008):

Just tell her! If you were realy friends, she would get it, and get over it, if she didn't feel the sme way! I'm your age, and I'm falling for my best guy fried, but, he keeps acting like he likes me, yet, he doesn't, I would LOVE for someon like him to tell me the truth. We tell eachother amost everything. If you want her to be your friend, tell her. Maybe she feels the same.

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