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writes:Am i being selfish for wanting more?i love my girlfriend of 3 months.shes everything i don't normally look 4 in a girl thats y its working so well i think anyways.in the past month shes seems 2 be ignoreing me more than ever.i talk 2 her everday on MSN and sometimes she will ignore me for 15-20 mintues most of the time and then only says " ok " or " k " and i keep saying 2 her " am i boring u " or " who else u talking 2 " and she always comes bak with " no y would u bore me " or " no 1 else just u " 1 night 2 weeks ago she was talking 2 me and then ignored me for 30-35 mintues and then told me this lad " TOM " he had told her shes cute and sexy and hes lives very close 2 me she told me where abouts like she'd been 2 is house and after she told me about him flirting wv her i got ignored for like 5-10 mintues at a time like he was more important 2 talk 2 then me.and every since she told me about this lad shes been ignoreing me more like 10-15 mintues at a time sometimes longer. she keeps saying " i just watching tv not talking 2 no 1 " but i know her MSN changes after 15-20 mintues of her not talking because it changes 2 " AWAY " its what happens i know because sometimes she falls asleep talking 2 me most nightsis there anyway i can say " stop ignoreing me on msn " without being cruel about it?ok the other part of the ignoreing part was last night. she stayed at my monday night and everything was nice. tuesday (yeserday) we went 2 the cinemas and watch a nice flim about weddings (comedy ... " wedding daze ") i told her its was boring i picked it but still i thought it was boring funny but boring . we went 2 the town and then she got a call from her mom saying could she go home in the morning and let the internet people in because she got cut 4 paying the bills. and she had 2 be at her moms 4 9am but when i got her 2 my house from 5pm - 8pm she didn't say anything 2 me like i had done something wrong. i planed for today wedneasday (MY BIRTHDAY) just 2 stay in bed all day and i was sulking so 2 speak about not spending the day in bed because of some stupid internet which her brother (who is in bed and doesnt work) could of sorted but because its my girlfriends name she thinks she has 2 sort it. anyone can sort out the internet i say. and i kept saying 2 my girlfriend between 5pm-8pm whats the matter i got mad and shouted at her i dunno y but all she kept saying was " nofthings the matter " and then turning bak 2 watch TV and it was doing my head in because she didn't even look at me most of the time.at 8pm she just changed like the girl i love more than anything was bak she was all over me kissing me and everything felt good again. what do u think is the matter with her do u think shes unhappy? i did ask her she told " no y would i be unhappy " i asked her if she was ok like a million times all i got was " yeah " between 5-8 last night it felt like there was a complete stanger sat in my room watching my tv and she didn't even know who i was.and today for my birthday the day i just wanted 2 stay in bed be cuddled i'm now doing NOFTHING i probaly will end up walk around town till its time 4 her 2 go home how boring does that sound?i'm not impressed i told her i was not happy about this internet thing all she said was " it cant be helped " this morning i got up 2 see her getting dressed and i said " u wasn't gonna wake me up was u? " she said " yeah y wouldn't i? " it felt like she was gonna sneak of and not say nofthing 2 me on my birthday and shes not once wished me a happy birthday she spelt happy birthday 2 me which i think is the most stupidest thing everthanks for readingwhat do u think is the matter with my girlfriend?do u think its just me and its just in my head?do u think im being selfish and wanting more?i plan 2 move in with my girlfriend at the end of the month will that help with the ignorein part?any help would be greatful
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reader, love-him +, writes (6 June 2007):
 Hey babe im not an expert on this but i think she is getting bored (not in a horrible way im so sorry to have to sya it like this =S) but i think she may have something for that other lad and she may find it difficult in ending the relationship. You shouldnt let her treat you the way she does, its not fair you dont deserve her to be like that on your birthday, i know how you feel though my ex didnt forgot about my 15th birthday and when i reminded him he said so what. i think you should move on babe, i know its difficult bt realy do.. mail me if u wana talk x x x
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reader, Gem86 +, writes (6 June 2007):
 Well, seems like youre in a hard situation at the moment! I think I'll start by saying that moving in together when things are like this might not be the best idea. It seems to me like shes got something going on in her head, but I wouldnt say it is definately thats shes met someone else. From what youve said it does appear that shes being a bit distant with you, but it could be caused by something entirely different from what youre thinking. The msn thing, some people just take ages to reply, maybe she hasnt got much to talk about if you two see each other a lot. If you want her to stop ignoring you, youre probably just gonna have to say stop ignoring me. I dont think the ways shes acting is right, but I think youre probably going to have to ask her whats going on. Tell her shes being funny, and that you need an explanation. Unless you find out whats going on in her head, chances are things wont be able to move foward with the two of you. I hope you get it sorted, Take care xxx
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