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writes: I luv a girl in my school blindly..now i was scared 2 ask her out..but then i thought that i will ask her out...but before i could a boy of my class who is better then me asked her and she accepted..now they love each other...i cant take this...i love her but she doesnt...i have tried 2 forget her but i couldnt even do that? If i ask her,i know that she wont accept me...what can i do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (18 October 2010):
Nothing. Wish I could make a love potion to help you out..but that's impossible. There's nothing you can do, she likes this guy and is taken. You can't make someone love you. Sorry, but at 13-15 I have to agree you don't know what love is. You don't figure that out till you are much older. Just wait till she breaks up with this guy then make your move and ask her out. Until then, you need to find a hobby or a new girlfriend to keep your mind off of her.
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reader, Helpfulme890 +, writes (18 October 2010):
Unfortunately have a stiff upper lip. you can't make someone love you and plus you are only 13-15 you don't know what love is. Now I know what you will think just because I am young doesn't mean I don't know what love is. I remember when my mum told me that too, was only 5years ago and now I feel so stupid when I think about what I thought love was. Hormones also give you this feeling like no other but that my friend is lust. You just have to move on your only young and have for ever to find a girl you like. Oh and no one is better that you, just different and there is probably a girl out there who is too nervous to ask you out. Just don't give up.
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