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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have been in love with a woman for over two years. She was my best friend and we spent most of our free time together. There was an amazing chemistry between us and we eventually started kissing, then dating. Her family loved me and told me that they were glad that I was part of the family. I was going to marry this girl.But I found out that, just as I felt we were ready to go into a relationship, she had been dating someone else for months. And a third person too. She said that she just wanted the physical side with me, but I couldn't have done just that - I loved her too much. Almost a year later and I'm still in love with her and can't get over it. I feel like I've met that one person who I can tell anything to and who I want to share everything with. What do I do?
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (2 November 2011):
 I guess there really not a lot that you can do here. It is her loss not yours. Off course it is going to hurt and it is going to be hard to get over her, but you just need to accept that she does not want the same things as you. Who knows if she will ever change her mind, but you need to distance yourself from her and give yourself some time to heal, cut all contact with her and ask her not to contact you, tell her exactly the reason why, that you love her and you need time to get over her. Go out with friends and keep yourself busy. If you have any contact details for her at all delete them and just give yourself some time. It does get better I promise.
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