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writes:Hey guys,Ive been goin out with my g/f for 1 year 1 month now, apart from in december when we had a break, which on the whole was successful.I knew she fancied another guy in this time and had "pecked" him. I found out recently that they had sex once during the time that we were not together, despite her swearing that she hadnt, i found out after she was trying to hide a text that practically gave the game away an argument ensued and she admitted it.We wernt together at the time but she feels really guilty about it and she said she's tried to tell me about it but bottled out at the ast minute because she didnt want to lose me.Im not sure how i should feel... angry, because she lied to me? angry, because of the way i found out? Grateful that the doubt i had is now gone? or inadequete because she said he was better than me?She has made it clear that she loves me and wants me n that it was just a drunken mistake. I love her but feel that it might be hard to trust her again.Thanks
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reader, 2old4this  +, writes (4 April 2008):
 Damn, the exact same thing happened to me at the exact same time. You are not going to trust her for a while. I am slowly getting back to trusting mine, but it's gonna be a while. I don't know, I just wanted to relate. You are like ten years younger than me but the problems dont get easier. But, if you guys really love each other it will get better. It is a sucky answer, but time is the answer. If you are willing to last it out.
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