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writes:over the last year i have become increasingly close to a female friend of mine. we spend a lot of time together and have a very open and honest relationship with each other. we both love each other as friends but i want more. i cant stop thinking about her, she is so perfect. but i dont know how she feels and i dont want to lose the friendship that we have built so far. what can i do to take things further with her? Reply to this Question
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reader, Ivana  +, writes (24 June 2007):
 I have a male friend and I love him too.But I am not sure he loves me.Try to find out does she loves you first and than tell her that you love her.Dont miss a chance, but be careful because you could lose your friendship.Please read my question and try to answer it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2007): i know exactly what ur goin through, and it sucks, all i can suggest is try to make it obvious (be subtle) the way u feel and if she seems comfortable with it then go the next step and tell her how u feel.U never know what u might get out of it, does she ever flirt with u? whats her take on same sex relationships? u could try flirting with her, but dont be too forward as u dont want to scare her away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2007): Is she perfect to you? How long can you wait for her? The most of the time a woman knows that you feel something about her by your actions. Don't try to rush things. Read the signs that she gave you and try to realise if she feels the same you do. And most of all be patient.
PS 1 - if you notice that it's taking too much time, talk to her openly and then give her space to think what she wants.
PS 2 - Don't let her use advantage of you.
GOOD LUCK ^-^
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