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writes:hello, thank you for taking the time to help me..I met this guy a long time ago, maybe more than four years now, we were in love, really in love, he is three years older than me and back then I was a very naive girl, I didn't know whait's like to be in a relationship so I did everything to keep it alive, I didn't see the end comming, he is one of these "play boys" who run for anything new and exciting and killing any emotion inside of them...anyway he dumped me and I just waned to keep him so I lied about being pregnant he was shocked and he disapeared, that lie was the talk of the town for a whole painful year..I was really down and wanted to kill myself many times..the next year he came back from a trip and started calling me again saying that he didn't stop thinking about me all the time..so we got out a few times and then..nothing. It's been the same thing until now..we still see eachother and it feels really good when I'm with him and really bad when I'm not..recently I met a very sweet and kind boy who really loves me..I've tried to start over with him but it's really hard, I love the other guy, I love someone who's not clear about what he wants and can't give me the security I need..I don't want to end up losing everything..please help Reply to this Question
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reader, LettertoJuliet  +, writes (1 September 2011):
Your problem is absolutely the same as mine... My situation is practically the same... If I were not in such a situation I would suggest forgetting him and taking seriously your new boyfriend however I know how HARD it is. You should decide for yourself tell yourself that this is the end I am proud and great woman why I should care about this guy and tell him that you don't want to see him and try to not be with him because the time heals everything. I hope that you will be strong enough to forget him...
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