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writes: Im 15 years old and im in love with a guy at my school. He doesn't know that I love him, and I no some girls who r his mates. I've also chatted 2 him online coz we hav the same interest. What shall I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2006): maybe you should try talking to him friendly and see how you get on then give it a couple of months or so then go for it as long as your confedent anything can happen
but dont be too upset if he turns you down there plety more fish in the sea
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2006): You have a huge crush, dear and you and you're experiencing feelings that are normal for your age. Firstly, understand some of the reasons you might be wanting to ask this guy out. If he's popular, is it really 'him' or that popularity image he projects, that you really want? Are your other gf's paired up and is this just a peer-pressure thing? If so, these are not valid reasons to consider dating this guy because then your feelings for him are not genuine. It's just not an honorable way to base a relationship on because your feelings are 'only' based on what 'you' want and this is unfair. It really sounds like you may not know him. The best you can do at this moment, is become his friend. Whatever you decide to do, I want to strongly remind you not to mistake an attraction or crush with love. Love requires two people, give to each other and cherishing each other. Real love takes a long time to build and becoming friends first, is the best way. Friendship is always the most sensible place to start. Make efforts to get to know him, for the person he is. Always respect his feelings. Take your time..sit down and really 'talk to him' when the opportunity presents itself. Maybe as your friendship progresses he will come to see your many wonderful sides. Who knows..his feelings may even deepen into a romantic interest, over time. But always remember, you can't never make a person like you. There is nothing that will make him, feel for you the way you feel for him. In time, you will know where this will go. Good luck, dear, have fun and Take care
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reader, compac +, writes (5 March 2006):
well if i was you..i would tell him how you feel but only online...so if you mess up you can say what you ment with out other people there!Also try and get your friends to drop a few hints and let the friends who are really close to him ask him what he thinks about you..Use that advice and see how it goes
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