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writes:Ok so im new to this web and im desperate. Im 13 going on 14 in march. I have liked this girl since second grade. Now that im in 8t grade I fell everyday she keeps slipping away. Shes dating people more popular and closer to her group and doesnt know I exist. She says hi to all the people im with except me she just ignores. I cant seem to figure out why help me!!?!?!?! Reply to this Question
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (16 December 2009):
 Okay, she likes you but she's signalling that she does not want to be with you. She just wants to be friends. When a girl says your not her type this means nothing to you because all you'll do and 99% of other guys will do is try to figure out a way to be her type. it all depends on how much they want her, untill eventually they give up or move on.
For you your goingto have to let her go. Do it by sending her a letter acknoledfing he feelings an let her know that you were hope you could start dating and see how the relationship/friendship could have developed. Finally the best thing you can do is say that you wish her te very best and take care.
Then leave it from there.
The worst thing you can ever do to a girl you like or liked is get angry with the fact she did not want you, you'll just feed her reasons to dislike you more, if you leave on good terms she will respect you for that and oneday she'll remember what you did and possibly want to date you after a while (could be months or years). For now send her the above message with in a letter or email (letters are hotter because she will likley keep it forever) then let he go, move on and enjoy your youth.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2009): Be careful your starting to show the early signs of being a stalker. Not all girls you love are going to love you back. Instead of pinning on one girl go out and be friends with many girls and guys. Leave her alone and just continue being nice to her when she does come your way. No need get obsessed over her though that just gets plain creepy and you'll scare her more than anything. Just play it cool, be yourself and STOP WATCHING her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionshe knows I exist but I cant get her out of my head. She does aknowledge me but very rarely. I dont get it why is she so nice to so many people she has known since 6th grade when Ive known her for over 6 years?
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reader, Advice_man  +, writes (12 December 2009):
 Maybe you are just not her type. You are only 13, as you grow older you will realize that this happens often, some girls like you but they are not your type...you like some girls but you are not their type. It's no big deal really, you just train yourself not to worry too much about all this and you move on, just let it go. Best of luck bro!
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reader, Griffo +, writes (12 December 2009):
Does she know you like her? Have you ever given the obvious signals that you do?
It seems to me she already knows you like her. The best thing in can say is keep hangin in there, but dont spill your beans just yet.
Does she achknoledge you at all?
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