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writes:I was involved in a car accident just over 8 years ago now, I have been dating this older woman (I'm 26yrs old, She's 47) now for just over the last 3 months. I have found over the last month "I would say" that when we have been having sex everything seems to be going really good untill (I think here that it's just a simple lapse in concentration) for some reason my cock just goes soft for no apparent reason. Now I was wondering and hoping that you may be able to help me even just a little bit with my problem and yes my problem is starting to affect our relationship. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2007): Hi love,
This kind of problem is more comon than people think, once this has happened even just the once you will worry so the next time its going to be worse.... So if you do a little test you and your girlfriend have a romantic night in. This has to be worked on for a while or untill you feel things have improved.... You can caress and be sexual but you are not to have sex touch each other and pleasure each other but you have to tell yourselves no intercourse. Try this for a period of time enjoy each others bodys and explain to your girl its not her and what you want to do to try to solve this. Once you have calmed down and the pressure is off, darling this should work itself out and get better.. TAKE CARE BOTH OF YOU LOTS OF LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (8 July 2007):
 Erection problems are more common than you might think, and most men go through this at some point in their lives.
It could be physchological or it could be pyhisical so your best option would be to visit your doctor about it.
They are very used to dealing with this sort of problem so there is nothing to worry about.
You will probably be given lots of advice on this site, but at the end of the day none of us are doctors so it would just be our opinions.
Take care.xx.
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