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writes: You's have probably heard this scenario a thousand times over, but here we go again! I've been friends with this girl for a few years, and recently we moved into together. All was goin grand but then i started developing these feelings for her. I began to fancy her! blah, blah, blah.. problem is she has a boyfriend. Quelle Surprise! Its always the way, ain't it? Her and her boyfriend have been goin out for years, since the dawn of time and its not as if he beats her or anything, he just doesn't treat her well. Anyway i finally told her how i felt (which maybe i shouldn't have done, but it was killing me!) turned out she liked me too, but still loved her boyfriend. We have done 'stuff' together, but still she stays with him. I don't know what in hell to do!! i real like her, and only wana see her happy, but i don't know whether to persue or back off! i'm real stuck here, and its really startin to get to me. Surely if she liked me that much, she would finish with her boyfriend? I know you'll probably say to move on, but remember i live with her! i have to see her everyday, and can't get away from the way i feel! I know we'd be good together, and think its pointless her staying in a relationship in which she ain't happy. But then again, i've been known to be wrong in the past! Need advise!!
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reader, auntie claire +, writes (12 June 2006):
 dear reader i agree with "sibaan" you need to get this aired soon i bet she is feeling the same way but look at it in her point of view its not easy breaking up with someone you've been with since " the dawn of time" if something is going to happen you will need to give it time as you have said soemthing has happened between you so there are obviously sparks there already but you also need to think of your friendship together is it worth all this if you are not 100% sure things will last you will find answers but you need to talk she knows who you are as a person so hopefully she will be honest with you and you'll find out exactly what you both want.good luck, all the best xxx
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reader, sibaan +, writes (10 June 2006):
 you guys have obviously fooled around so therefore she has cheated on her boyfriend with you so she must have feelings towards you and not to great feelings towards her boyfriend. you dont cheat on someone you love so questipn her about it and then see what happens....
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