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writes:just want to say sorry if i drag on a bit but im desperate.i like two girls and can't choose between them. i see one every morning just about cause she passes me on her bus and we both smile and wave. we also talk on facebook and im always pleased and happy to talk to her. we flrt a bit and i get the impresion that she likes me. this is cause she is one of my friends girlfriends and everyone knows he doesn't treat her right.over the last few times we have spoken she has always put smiley faces and when me and her f saw her the other day she imediately spoke to me first and she has spoken to me about all of her bf problems and she even said she wants to break up with him. there currenltly going out still but not seeing each other for 2 weeks to see how she feels. i like her very muchand theres this other girl who i met at a friends party in february. we got on quite well and i recentley started to speak to her on facebook. we have spoken everyday just about and we have loads in common. i thought she was cute when i met her and i think theres more now i feel for her. i also think she likes me as well because she always uses smiles and wink smiley faces. also she told me the other day that it "would be good to see you lol" or "i can't wait to see you lol" forgot which she put.anyway we were talking last night and she lost track of time cause she was talking to me and i just told her that shes a good person to talk to and she replied with :D. i was also tlking to our friend who party it was when we met and she asked me if i was talking to her with a smiley face. i'm wondering if she likes me she has told our mutual friend idkanyway what do i do? who should i chose because i can't decide who i like more? thanks for the help
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reader, dancergirl123  +, writes (21 May 2011):
 I know that you may be thinking of this in the back of your mind but I don't think you need to choose. Letting time take action is the way to go sometimes. The best can come out of it. Also you said that you have only met the girl at the party once.. remember that talking through chat can be very deceiving and it can change a persons personality completely. Then you have the other girl who you get to see every day, but it dating your friend. She may seem like a good option but the best thing to do is let her cool down and reset herself from the relationship that sounds like will be ending soon. I think that the girl you'll end up with in the end will somehow come to you or you'll know that shes the one by the feeling you'll get when your around her. don't rush to much and good luck ;)
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reader, Swasti  +, writes (21 May 2011):
 I too was in the same situation. But i think you need to analyse which is infatuatiön and which is love. N, you should not come to any decision now. Give yourself more time to know what you want. Because you can't love two girls at the same time. Think from your heart. You will know who is attraction and who is love.
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