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writes:i really really like a lad at school who i think likes me aswell cos he flirts with me nearly as much as i do with him, and that is a lot! the only problem is that he has got a girlfriend and i dont know what to do! he probably knows that i like him but should i tell him? it could ruin my friendship with him but could it be worth it? please help me, i really dont know what to do!ps. he seems to get on pretty well with his gf
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reader, luvy duvy  +, writes (29 November 2008):
 I understand your situation. I have been it before. He is most likely no good if he is flirting with you while he is in a relationship...think about what he would do if you guys were dating...Yeah! I thought you would get it...it would hurt you to see him flirting with other girls. Keep the relationship as friends...for now.You will be fine!...and if he really likes you he will brake up with her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2008): No Matter what, these relationships never last. Ever! just wait it. R u sure he is flirting with you though. If so that is very bad! Don't go out with somone who is flirting with another girl while he has a gf.
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reader, PsyCookie +, writes (13 July 2008):
 I don't have a good image of this guy. You say he gets along with his girlfriend and flirts a LOT with you.Now, if he were to leave his girlfriend and you got ahold of him somehow, would you stand him flirting with another girl as much as he did with you? I'm not saying it would happen, but it's most likely to happen since guys like that tend to keep a trend.I think you shouldn't tell him just yet, but only because he has a girlfriend. You could wait for him to break up with her (if he does) and after that wait for a couple of months. Then if you still feel the same way about him, tell him and see what happens. But no matter what, don't let your feelings take ahold of you and try to destroy his relationship. Just be patient and if this guy really likes you, he'll end the relationship himself.Now if you do get with him, take the relationship slow and get to know him. But whatever you do, I hope you end up happy.Good luck with everything!
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