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writes:I have been talking to my mates cousin quite a lot recently online and bumping into him every now and again in town. He has been quite flirty with me, he has a girlfriend but said: things arent going too well i dunno how long its gonna last... your nice though.He keeps saying how pretty i am all the time and i must admit i find him quite attractive too. I dont plan on doing anything yet but heres the problem: im not 16 till december and he's 20. Is this too big of a gap? can anything happen in the future if i decided i really wanted to?
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reader, love-the-1-ur-with +, writes (11 February 2007):
 i am nearly 16 and my boyfriend has just turned 19 and i dont feel that the age gap is to big. As long you be careful and act responsible then there is nothing wrong with it in my opinion but make sure your family are happy with it before you do anything.
BUT remember you might want different things in life as he has experience many more things than you have.
Hope that has helped slightly.
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reader, Sahshii +, writes (11 February 2007):
no. go for it:)
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reader, cd206 +, writes (11 February 2007):
 Right now it's a big age gap since you're both looking for very different things from a relationship, not to mention the fact that he's already in a relationship and it wouldn't be fair on his girlfriend if anything happened between you. Things could possibly happen in the future but right now I think the most mature thing you could do is realise that you're not ready for this type of relationship and try to find someone your own age.
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