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*agle'sfan1986
writes:I like men alot but I want to see what it would be like to date a woman since I once had a fantasy of my fourth grade teacher years ago in my mind. She had ginger hai I also would look for red haired women in the Internet and would kiss their picture also. I once wrote about the fantasy of me and a girl on my notebook also. How do I come out to my family?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 January 2017):
 You don't need to tell your family anything unless off course you want to. I would simply just begin by chatting to some women who may be interested and see how it goes.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (28 December 2016):
 What are you "coming out" about.... that you have a desire to try lesbian sex? Why is your sex life any of their business?
Once you meet a woman you want to date and it' gets serious enough you can bring her home to meet the family. Just like you would do with a guy.
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reader, Garbo +, writes (28 December 2016):
 Coming out as gay on account of a lesbian fantasy is rather premature. Having fantasies and acting on them are different degrees of personal commitment to sex. Having fantasies isn't real and unreal stuff does not indicate what your real sexual preferences are. Being attracted to girls and actively pursuing a relationship with one is indicative of that. I'd suggest that you say nothing to your family about this.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (28 December 2016):
 I don't know if there is anything to come out about. You have a fantasy. I think everyone has fantasies. If you happen to actually fall in love with a woman, you can come out as a bisexual or lesbian or whatever you feel you identify yourself with. But you don't have to "come out" in order to be who you are.
Tell your family when the right time comes up, if you happen to discuss relationships and crushes.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts  +, writes (28 December 2016):
 I think you need to figure out if it's something you want in real life or just in your fantasy world. I think it's best to try casually dating a woman before coming out to anyone (except maybe a close family member/friend).
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