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*Dazzling
writes:A girl, who is close friends with this guy, acted normal at the start of the school term (about 9 weeks ago). She was friendly, we walked together and talked between classes, she squeezed the information out of said boy that he likes me and told me randomly one day in class that she knows who likes me, but didn't say who (because he said not to tell.But lately she's been acting.. differently. Unfriendly. I nearly bumped into her in class and I said sorry and smiled, and she just looked at me, and we don't really talk now. After school I walked past her when she was with said guy and some other girl, and apparently him and the other girl stared after me, but she was looking away. And she replied to everyone who wished her a happy birthday on Facebook except me. Is it just me? :| Oh and when I while I was writing "Happy Birthday" I noticed she'd joined a Facebook group called "Every time you talk to me I fall a little more in love with you. ?" Guess it could be about someone else..? (She talks about him in her statuses on Facebook a lot as well).I've really come to like this guy, but now I'm not sure if I should let him know/ let things go any further - I don't want to hurt his friend. Even if she isn't acting as nice as pie to me anymore. Why does she have to be so unfriendly towards me? How likely do you think it is that she has feelings for him? Do you think that things would get too messy if I made a move, would she get over it eventually?Most importantly, what should I do??? :(Any feedback at all would be so appreciated.. :)
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (14 April 2010):
 Some day you win and some day you lose. Forget about him , he is only two timing you .
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reader, xDazzling +, writes (14 April 2010):
xDazzling is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you so much for your feedback!But as an unfortunate update, I've found out yesterday that they go out now, so now I'm REALLY confused and upset?!?!?!?!! Anyway, thank you for the advice, I'll try to use it in the future. :)
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (10 April 2010):
You are a potential threat to her . That explains some of her hostile actions towards you . She is jealous .
If you make a move, there will be outright hostilities between you.Perhaps a war may erupt.
The question is how much do you want this guy? Enough to even fight with her over him ?
Or he is not worth the hassle?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2010): It's never easy when you're stuck in a love triangle with someone else. It seems as if you're not the best of friends with this person, you have to consider your losses and gains. You might have a good relationship with this guy if you moved forward. You might hurt this girl and create negative feelings between the two of you. Ultimately, you should do what you want and not let people scare you away from something which you have a right to have.
Decide if he's worth it, and if you do choose to get closer to him, make sure you try and make it up to her by having a conversation or trying to be friendly with her in someway. Don't give her any other reasons to dislike you and don't stoop to her level.
Best of luck.
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