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I like him, and he likes me, but neither of us is ready for a relationship. So where do we go from here?

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Question - (26 July 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 July 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So I met this guy on a online dating site and our date was just perfect and he was everything i wanted in a guy..he was staring into my eyes all night it was perfect then after our date we got the bus home and went our seperate ways..then we was txting each otherevery day until our 2nd date...which he intived me over to his house and he cooked a lovely meal for me and he asked if i wanted to say over...but i said no!! cut a long story short!! we've been in contact every day without fail,he went away for a week and was messaging me everyday and i felt like he really liked me and then he came back and said that he didnt want to be in a relationship which i agreed with as i dont too,well we both do but I Dont wana rush things...which im ok with,anyway we've had our 3rd date and it was perfect again...and i stayed over and he held me and kissed me all night it was sooo perfect :)

I really like him and i know he likes me because of the things he txts me and we have soo much in common its untrue!! I really like him and i know he likes me too but I haven't got a clue...what if it just stay this way and we never get into a relationship? do you think he is scared? i need some help!!! thanks

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2011):

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I think we just dont want to rush anything,but eventually i'd like it to form into a relationship x

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (26 July 2011):

chigirl agony auntWhy don't you want to be in a relationship with him? You said you didn't want it, that you aren't ready? How so?

What about you talk to him and say you'd like for the two of you to just stay cuddly, and seeing each other for a while, kisses and cuddles and nothing more, and just see how it goes? That you'd like to get to know him better?

Just make sure you agree to not get emotionally attached to other people. You can date others etc. but as soon as one of you feel like kissing someone else you call it off between the two of you so that there is no two-timing going on.

It can work, every relationship evolve differently.

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