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writes:We slept together, after months of flirting kissing etc. Then next day we spent the day together, we went back to my place had sex again and fell asleep. He left in the morning kissed me goodbye and said he'd text me. He texted me 2 days later just casually asking how was I what was I doing. I had fallen asleep and didnt reply till lunch time. I never heard from him after that. A few weeks later me and my friends were out at a club and he seen me and didnt make no effort to try talk to me so I walked off and never seen him the rest of the night. Well recently me and my friends were out at the club and he approached me this time.. he put his arm around me and tried to explain to me why he hadnt contacted me, he also tried to kiss me he was quite drunk. I felt akward as it wasnt the time or place for this..I was out with my friends and I didnt want him spoilling my night as I felt really hurt and used how had treated me. Ive liked him for months and he knew this. We have mutual friends they also said he really likes me too. Im just so confused by the way hes treated me. And because ive rejected him now he must think that I dont like him. When I actual fact I do really like him I was just protecting myself from more hurt and confusion. I just dont know what to do about the whole situation. The fact we have mutual friends means were going to be around each other I just dont want either of us to feel awkward. I really like him I dont understand how its got so messed up. And would appreciate some advice. Thanks
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reader, Sincerely Yours  +, writes (6 January 2015):
 I think people put too much on texting. If you send someone a text and they don't reply, it's okay to call. That goes for both of you. It sounds as if you're over thinking a silly texting sequence. Don't put too much pressure on that. It's not intimate. It's impossible to determine tone and emotion or body language.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (6 January 2015):
 If you ARE interested and want to sort it out, CALL him up. Met up and have a SOBER chat.
His actions ARE contradictory. Hitting on you at a club while being drunk is no way showing he is interested, neither is waiting 2 days to bother calling/texting you.
Personally, he sounds UTTERLY immature for his age.
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