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22-25,
anonymous
writes:The guy I play or knows I like him, but he always says he "hates" me. But although he's like that on the outside, with other people, when we text and stuff, he says he only says that because it's "funny". He acts like a complete a-hole but I still like him and when he found out I like him, he just said "I don't really care" and he also called me a lesbian, because of some weird girl at our school. I don't know what to do anymore. I like him a lot though..
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reader, dougbcoll +, writes (3 December 2015):
 "i don't know what to do anymore. i like him a lot though." well it appears you like the "bad boys" type of guy, the type that uses girls, treats them bad, not very nice to them.... why don't you dump this loser from your thoughts and find a nice guy that will show you love, kindness and treat you like a girl wants to be treated. my advice don't chase the boys , but show interest to them , and they will be giving you attention that you are desiring. why not chase after the boys , but have them in pursuit after you? it show you have self worth. you stop giving that bum attention , he will wake up and wonder what is up with you.
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reader, Tottochan  +, writes (3 December 2015):
Hi there,You know, some boys at that age can be very immature and a little mean too. He might be behaving the way he is to look 'cool' in front of his friends.Do you really like someone who doesn't treat you well in front of others? You ought to be with someone who treats you very well - in front of others, and in private as well.I know that it hurts when you like this boy and he is acting this way, but just tell yourself that he is not ready for you now. Don't worry about his teasing. Ignore it and concentrate on your studies and friends and family. If and when he does get a little sense in his head, he will realise that what he has been doing is very very silly and will come to you of his own accord, when he is ready.Till then, you stay cool and happy! :) All the best.
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