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writes:ok soo ive always liked a guy named mike but our parents would kill eachother. he lives with me and my best friend grace. but hes moving to jetsy to be with his mom who has cancer. i told him smile and he said you havent made me yet. my heart shattered i dont know how long he'll be in jersey i feel like i need to go after him but i can't go to jersey what should i do him before he moved was the only time i've seen him sad in 2 years hes a sweet bubly person im gonna miss alot what should i do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2013): Keep in touch by phone call, text, and Facebook.
Go visit him when you can. Give him all the support you can.
DO NOT MOVE!!! Unless you have a job, apartment, and/or a school lined up in Jersey. You should continue pursuing an education, and creating your own future. Give Mike a little space for now. There will be times he will not feel like hearing from you.
There will be lots of boys of interest in your future. Mike will always be a friend. Not necessarily your boyfriend. So continue making new friends, while he is away.
He shouldn't be your main focus or the center of your universe. I know you like him a lot and you'll miss him. But you're right, you can't go after him. That wouldn't be smart.
He will have his hands full, and will not have much time to offer you the attention you want. So he may not call or get back to you right away. Prepare for that.
Always remember that you can't impose too much on his time once he moves. He is dealing with something very serious in his life. His sick mother.
You can't be selfish and burning up his phone. I know you're all gah-gah and filled with puppy-love. Please try to be sensible and mature. Just contact him enough to let him know you care about him. Hopefully things will go well, and Mike will be back!
Visit him and his mother from time to time. Don't make surprise visits. Always call ahead for permission.
Just be sure he has a good friend to depend on, when he's sad and feeling down. Keep him smiling.
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