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writes:ok i'm 16. i've like this guy so almost a year now. we almost went out but then decided to just stay friends. i really really like him, but he's not interested in me. anyway i tryed to get over him, but i can't, its just to hard. i can't stop thinking about him. i've even cryed about him. i try to get my mind off him, but everything reminds me about him. all i could think about is all the memories we had. we hung out a couple of times. we haven't talked or texted for about 2 weeks. for some reason i'm scared to text him. i don't know if he's busy or something and i don't even know what to say. yeah we're still friends, but now i feel so awkward for some reason. he hasn't texted me. useally we always text. i don't know what to do? i'm really confused.
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (2 July 2009):
 you have to realise this guy doesnt want to be with you.
at the moment you will feel pain now and unhappiness but as time goes on u will feel better.
its really hard at the moment but u have to focus on other positive things in your life to take ur mind off this.
i advise u dont text him becoz if he wanted to be with u he would have msgd by now.
have u tried hanging with friends or taking up a new hobby?
this will take ur mind off him and help u move on.
you need to surround urself with good friends and it will take time to get better.
u will get over this just remain strong.
good luck!
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