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writes: my friend recently had lots of arguements with her 9month boyfriend. she called me to her house yesterday. and she was crying so much. i comforted her and when i went home she text me saying thanks alot for being there. she also dumped her boyfriend last night. today she was still depressed because she loves him but his not showing the same love. today i phoned her and she told me they are back together, she was so happy. i showed her how happy i was to hear that news, i really wasbut when i put the phone down i felt as if i'd lost someone. i was so depressed! i felt this stone on my chest! i think i have feelings for her but i only realized now when she's got back together. i always encouraged her to stay with her boyfriend but i never knew i like her. i dont even know if i do, but i have feelings for her! i'm just so confused! what should i do? we are extremely close friends. thanks alot
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (30 July 2008):
Well I think you have to just take some time to yourself and get over her.
She's with this guy, and is clearly in love with him.
You are wonderful and sweet and respectful so I have no doubt that if you put yourself out there you could get a girl within a week who would love you so much.
It could be the feeling is that you have lost her as a friend a little bit because she's back with him and will spend all her time with him.
Chill out a bit and go out with some guy mates for a drink and a flirt with some other girls. That should clear your head a bit.
Good Luck!! xx
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