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writes: Men's views required predominantly please. If you are male and say 27 yrs old, and you have played the field only in the past, (as you are very attractive/charming/intelligent) and you have never had a serious relationship... How do you know if you've fallen in love for the first time ? I'm unsure if I am reading into things optimistically or if he really has become over emotionally attached (which I'm sure he has to an extent), as he has given me many little signals that he is in love with me (this conclusion from my past experiences) but he has struggled to say it to me, twice in a year. I am wondering if he dosen't recognise being in love ? He has said to me he dosen't "get what love is" ??? This is much more complicated than I have gone into at this stage ! Thoughts appreciated. Reply to this Question
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reader, dan0306  +, writes (17 November 2006):
Hi.
Im 22 and have, in the last few weeks realised what love is. For me, Love is when you wanna be with someone 24/7 and cant stop thinking about them night or day. When they are away from you, you feel like something is missing and when you are with them, you feel like your life is compleate. It sounds from your question that this guy doesn't know what love is and has never experienced it at all. Especally if he cant even say it to you.
On the positive side, I believe that someone can grow to love another person over time. This "love at first sight" thing is rubbish. Mabye this guy can grow to love you.
Hope that helps.
xxx
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