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writes:Hi,I'm currently seeing this girl who I've been speaking to for a few months now. We aren't in a relationship but just speaking and seeing each other. We partially speak every day and see each other at least every week.Problem is, she is still not over my best friend who she liked a lot. She originally told me that who knows what could happen between us and says she is slowly moving on from him and I had hope but now. I just feel hopeless and my friends have said as well from the way she seems. That I should just move on and just see her as a friend.Problem is I can't. She means too much to me and I can't stop thinking about her.I just don't know how to handle this situation and I do want to move on in a way but don't want to. I want to still stay friends with her but the heartache from knowing she may not like me the same way is horrible.Can someone give me some advice on just how to move on. Please
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2015): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionJust to let you know. My friend told me before I wanted to peak to her properly that he doesn't mind. He has a girlfriend now anyways and had no problem with me talking to her and that. I told him I liked her after a month's of taking and he is completely fine with it. She just still likes him even though he doesn't like her in that way and has a girlfriend. I just feel like she isn't going to like me in the way she likes him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2015): I've had y ok Google guy code before because my boyfriends best friend kept saying that he couldn't tell me stuff because of "Brocode" or whatever. It states that a guy cannot date another Bros ex unless they are not Bros or given permission. Ask your friend if it's ok to date her if he's fine with it then badda bing! If not then sorry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2015): you are in an awkward situation because she is your friends ex and you have develpoed feelings for her.In the normal course of events the friend of the ex would stand back.People normally try to keep the harmony of a group of friends but for some reason the girl has got your number and phones you regularly.As you are young you could just offer to take her out.Sometimes these things start a lasting romance but you need a strong basis of reliable friendship first and then you have to be prepared to branch away from the group or it would upset the harmony.If she turned out to be your future life partner with engagement and marriage your friends would be happy for you, but if you are just interested in bedding her once or twice and dropping her , then it isnt worth the aftermath.
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