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writes:Ive been dating my girlfriend coming up 6 months, she wants me to meet her parents, it is a big deal for her.She has told me she loves me, but I have not said it back. I am worried that by now I should feel something for her, I really like her but it seems to be stuck on just really liking her. I want to know if I should go and meet the parents if im feeling like this? I dont want to upset her if I say no. I would really like some advice on this?Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (20 August 2012):
 Everybody falls in love in their own time, there isnt a time limited on love and feelings.
This said you can't wait forever to see how you feel while this girl hangs on in love with you when you don't know how you feel about her.
You need to have a serious think abour her and what you want for the two of you.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (17 August 2012):
 I bet that you and I BOTH know the real "answer" to your "question".....
IS she putting out for you? IF "yes," then it's understandable that you don't want to SAY "I love you"... since that MEANS that you really feel some sort of COMMITTMENT to/toward her... and EVERYBODY KNOWS that we guys eschew COMMITTMENTS.... we want to keep our options open/available.... in case some other - sweeter looking - young thing comes along.... and we want to try HER out....
As for your specific question (should I go with her when she visits her parents?...) Of course you should. Heck, it's not like they're going to (try to) pin you down... right then and there.... and force you to MARRY the tender creature, on the spot!!!!
Good luck....
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (17 August 2012):
 After 6 months you still don't know if you LOVE her? What are you waiting for? You think if you just wait it out love will creep in?
I do think you need to figure out how you feel before you do the whole meet the family. Because if she has a crazy ass family loving her will make ALL the difference...
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