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writes: I'm facing a problem now with regards to being sexually attracted to woman.I get attracted to men far more quicker as opposed to an ordinary girl, when I find myself attracted to a woman there is hardly, basically almost no sexual excitement, just attracted to her beauty, and when I GET to know her emotionally I "connect" with her, but I hardly feel sexually attracted and start panting like some men that get a hard on for any woman with short skirts, and big boobs.If I see a good looking lad, I'm attracted and sexually and physically attracted, but with a woman I'm attracted to her beauty and emotionally.Does this make any sense? I feel as though I'm the only person that feels like this?What are the possibilities of finding a woman that I'm sexually and emotionally connected to as I'm kinda getting worried about this.
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (31 May 2006):
 Maybe you are gay and if so thats fine, you may be bi sexual or you may just have not had enough sexual encounters to know what you are or what you want.
You need to experiment and try things out, be open with your self and honest, if something or someone turns you on then persue this, dont try to be a square peg in a round hole it just is not worth it.
Relax and find out who you are and what turns you on, then go with this and dont be afraid.
You may just not have come across what ever it is that turns you on.
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reader, hannieseds  +, writes (31 May 2006):
 Hi there,
I don't mean to scare you or put you down in any way but it sounds to me like you may be gay. That might seem like a very frightening prospect to you right now, but it makes complete sense since you are physically, sexually, emotionally attrached to guys, and not at all to a woman in those ways.
Have you EVER been attrached to a woman in the same way you are to guys at the moment?
The way you feel about woman sounds to me like you think they're beautiful and you do connect with them, but that's as far as it goes. When you are attracted to someone you get the rush of all emotions - including physically and sexually - which you are getting when you see a good-looking guy.
Don't fight what you are feeling, but if you are feeling confused there is no shame whatsoever in talking to someone about what you are feeling - school counceller maybe?
I hope you find what you're looking for. But be prepared, because it sounds to me like guys just do it for you! We're all different and we are a much more gay-aware society now, so there is no shame in being what you are. Just be yourself and don't fight what you're feeling. xxx
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