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I like B but don't want to hurt A. What if I do stop seeing A and then B doesn't want me?

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Question - (1 September 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 September 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Right, need some guy advice :/.

I was at a night club two weeks ago, and met this guy, lets call him A. We ended up making out and i got his number, since then we've spoke a lot and met up about 8 times, we agreed to "see each other". I did like him alot. I still sort of do like him but, another guy is on the scene. lets call him B. Well i met B last weekend. Didn't speak much, but on saturday there, he came to a nightclub with me and some friends. We had a right laugh. The next day he travelled all the way across to the other side of the city to come out with me and some friends because i invited him. I like B ALOT. but i don't want to hurt A's feelings. Also, what if i break it off with A and B doesn't want me. B has been flirting a lot of showing definate signs of interest. What should i do ?

Honest opinions?

Help appreciated.

Anon x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2009):

You are 16, you can date as many guys as you want. If you are talking about seeing someone as in Hooking up with someone then that means you can be un-hooked by either guy just as easily. I always think it is smartest to date around and keep your options open and not sleep around, that way you will meet a nice guy who really likes you for you....the guys are the ones who will make it known to you if they want more, want a relationship or to be exclusive. Neither guy has asked you, you don't owe either one of them one damn thing....just enjoy yourself and have some fun, but be smart.

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