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writes:Hi everyone, i have an interest in girl in my class, im in uni by the way. One problem i have is that this class is only 1 hour a day so there is not a lot of chances when it comes to approaching her, but one upside is that we have like 15 minutes off before the class, and that can be my only chance, so at least there is that. Another huge deal at least for me is that she doesnt seem very open, she just feels to me like very unnaproachable( this could also be me just overthinking things) for example she is always wearing earphones or doing homework or something like that. We have only talked once and it was very short and only class related.I know that i seem silly just worrying about this, but i dont have much dating experience, because i wanted to be a little bit older before dating, and only recently i have started trying to get to know girls better, so yea im not an expert when it comes to making the first move, or at least making it and not coming off as creepy or too strong and making her back off. If you feel that i left information relevant for this question let me know, and also i want to thank in advance for taking a moment of your time to help me with this silly problem. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi guys, thx all for your answers, just today I finally decided to talk to her, I dressed nicely, and acted outgoing, carefree and (I hope) confident. It went very well, I talked with her for a while and she is more or less as I perceived her to be, she is nice and friendly, exchanged names and all and talked a lot about class topics. And as a nice bonus my change in demeanor also made me meet more people, so all in all this seems to be going well, I might actually make more friends and get to know this girl better :). So thank you for your advice, the boost in confidence really helped.
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reader, Seraphim  +, writes (14 September 2012):
 I think you should try to be her friend and get to know her and see what type of chick she is. You never know until you try and it couldnt be that bad. Just be confident but dont come off as desperate or give her cheesy chatlines but i can assure you that girls like a guy who is confident. good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2012): Start with small talk. Whatever kinds of things you say normally to meet people, say the same things to her. Don't pretend to be someone you're not, because that never works for very long. Sure, maybe dress a little nicer than you normally would the day you decide to approach her. Don't go overboard with the cologne, though. Despite what the axe commercials say, that is NOT the way to impress a girl. If she seems unapproachable, just start by asking her a class-related question so it doesn't seem like you're hitting on her. And you're right, don't come on too strong right away. Most girls do find that creepy, unless they are the types of girls who are only looking for casual sex. You already know more about girls than you think you do.
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reader, bini magna  +, writes (14 September 2012):
 well,brother first you have to figure out her background and status by asking her close friend to know more about her character,interest,likes and dislikes.this important information is critical to break THE ice and move forward.secondly dress well and wear a good men perfume in order to get her attention and THE most important thing is confidence_so u have to have this quality. finally there are different sites on THE internet how to flirt girls and THE like hope this advice help YOU a little good luck!!!
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