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writes: i need some advice i recently told my girlfriend a lie i told her that i owend my house but i dont. NOW i regret it how do i get out of this mess?I dont no why i told her that. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2008): dude, i lied to my girlfriend too. I'm kinda in the whole, mess phase as well, so i don't really have any good advice. But i just admitted it to my girl and i feel miserable about the whole thing. not only was i dishonest to her, but i cause her to stand up for me against her brother in about 3 hours of arguement when he was really right and i was just the liar. it's a terrible thing to do. I regret it more than anything, almost as much as i love her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2005): lol good stuff. i lie to my gurl alot too. recently she asked me to stop smoking and 3 days later (yesterday) she asked me if ive smoked within the past 3 days. i told her i didnt. she doubted me told me it didnt sound honest so i told her the truth after she tricked me "i wont be mad" but she was mad !!!!! so i said whats it matter if i tell you the truth or a lie when your just going to doubt me. then she got even madder lmao.. damn im not lookin 4word to seein her 2day!!!!!
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reader, TankerNC +, writes (10 December 2005):
You are smart and beautiful and if she can't accept you for who you are then she doesnt deserve you
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (9 December 2005):
 You own up to your lie, right now, because the longer you wait the harder it is to correct things. If she finds out the truth later, she's going to much more hurt about your lie than if you tell her yourself.
Explain to her that the reason you lied was that you wanted to impress her (that is probably the reason, don't you think?), and that you're sorry and embarrassed that you did it. Tell her the truth, and then let her know that it's not normal for you to tell untruths. Assure her that you'll be honest in future and that you want her trust, which is why you couldn't allow your lie to continue.
That's really all you can do, except of course, to be true to your word from now on. And if you catch yourself tempted to tell a lie to her, stop yourself before it pops out.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2005): hi there, u probably told her to impress her.the answer to ur question is a simple one. i would suggest u tell her the truth immediately and explain to her why u did it. tell her u felt u needed to hype urself up to please her cos u felt u r a nobody. if u tell her that i bet u if she really loves u she will understand. please try not to tell her a lie again if this works. women dont like being lied to. trust is an issue in a relationship for us and if we dont have it we feel threatened and move on. i hope she is willing to forgive u mate, but its the chance u need to take. wishing u the beat and pls dont forget the plot and try to stay on line. wish u the best.
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