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*aintballer4life9494
writes:Hey, i have another issue. I did something really badI lied to my girlfriend and like i told her that i was going to my grandpas house and then like i went to the movies. Then when i got there her friends saw me and i was sitting next to one of my friends that was a girl. And then like she texted my gf and told her. Then my grandma came into the movies and got me out of the movie. Then like i called her from the movies and like she was crying and told me that she thought that i was different then all the other guys out there. So we just talked and she told me that she will probably have a really hard time ever trusting me again. And then we just talked forever about it. And then today on the phone she told me that i need to earn the trust back. So basically i really need an idea on what to do to earn the trust back. Like she is reaally upset. And i just need help like really bad.I dont know what to do. She says she still wants me though so that is good. But i need to make it up.Can i do anything to fix this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2009): agree with the person belowhave a seriously intense truth sharing session with hertell her everything about you and your feelings and exactly why you lied and all the things youve ever done and what your like and how you feel about things and how you feel about her and just go on and go about your feelingswhenver you talk to her be totally straight up leave out nothingshare with her any really embarasing or sad secrets basically give yourself to her and put all your trust in herthen she will feel a bit more like trusting you again
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (3 February 2009):
 I have an idea how to get people to trust you...... Hold on to your seat here you might not see this coming..... Stop telling lies! There not difficult!
If she is silly enough to take you back, you must not lie to her again, if you want to go out with your mates, tell her that and not that you are going to your grandparents. Introduce her to your friends, male and female so she knows that this other girl isn't a threat to her.
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