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male
age
30-35,
*5 YR OLD GUY
writes:Hi guys, I'm 15 but I am very mature for my age, and I look the part. I have been talking to this girl, shes 17, but the problem is that I told her I was 18. She believes me, but it's come back to haunt me. I'm madly and utterly in love with this girl, she's amazing. She has the perfect personality, and I cant stop laughing when we talk. I have very strong feeling towards her. I'm afraid if I tell her my real age, she'll drop me. We have so much fun togeter, and we flirt constantly. I'm abolutely out of controlably in love with her, with all my heart. Please help
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reader, Devilish Angel  +, writes (7 February 2008):
 I lied to my boyfriend about my age also and I felt very guilty about it. I think that you should just come out with it. If she cares for you as much as you care for her, age shouldn't be a big deal.
Honesty is the best policy in a relationship or the relationship will get hurt.
Its hard but just sit her down on day and tell her you're sorry.
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reader, zeddiebear  +, writes (6 February 2008):
Ok, is this an online relationship? or do you guys meet face to face regularly? while online relationships do work, they are famous for people lying about themselves which turns people off.Now she's going to find out at some point. I suggest you tell her sooner than later. First find out if this is worth it.... if she too is in love with you age wont matter. Sure shes going to be mad that you lied to her. A three year age gap isn't huge..maybe at your age it seems so but after a certain age it stops to matter... my boyfriend is 20 and im 22 and we're great. Tell her how much she means to you and how she makes you feel. Then tell you have a huge problem. Don't tell her what it is at first let her think shes coaxing you out of it. Lead her to believe the problem is worse than it is so that when you tell her you've lied about your age it wont be as bad as she thought it was and won't be as mad but relieved. she might be like - how can i be with someone so young. what will her friends say etc.. you can tell them her friends dont need to know your age. tell her that age is just a number and clearly until you told her that you are 15 you guys got along great so there are no issues of immaturity or things that come along with "being young".That's the best you can do i think. Be honest!xoxo
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