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writes: I need help learning how to get my girlfriend of a year and a month's trust back. You see I am a chronic liar,I tell lies over things like seeing old female friends on the street (Non romantic) friends and calling them to see if they want to meet for coffee. When my girlfriend confronts me with the number on my cell phone I make up some dumbass lie about it being well anything other then what it is.. Even though though there is nothing going on with me and anyone else I still lie about this shit! My girlfriend is at the end of her rope, she's told me she doesn't love me as much as she thinks she should anymore in part because of the lies, how can I get her trust back? I'm not working on a clock and I am willing to take as long as it takes.. I just want her to love me again
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reader, cupid helper +, writes (6 August 2006):
you sound like you really love her and lies are bad cause i have done it my self you can stop you just got to try it helps when you think of why your not lieing your doing it for her so your doing it for someone. which makes it easyier.stop with the lies and get on with your life lieing aint going to help anything. if you want your relationship to work then you have got to stop lieing. talking to your partner helps
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reader, Wild Thaing  +, writes (6 August 2006):
 You need to understand the reasons behind your compulsion to lie. Your girlfriend wants to dump you because you haven't confronted the underlying issues that cause your behaviour.
We might be able to help you if you provide more details about your past, because I'm guessing that you lie to a whole bunch of other people in your life. For all we know you could be lying to us on this forum.
If you're serious about salvaging your relationship, you have to first save yourself. Good luck and take care.
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reader, tux  +, writes (6 August 2006):
 You can stop lying for one.. but that's the obvious. you need to be truthful to her.. if there isnt a reason to lie about something, then you should tell it as it is... if there is a reason to lie about it, then you shouldn't be placing yourself in those situations.
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