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writes:I am a 25 yr old male. Ive been withthe same woman for almost years the first 6 months were better than I could have ever imagined then we hit the one year mark and we start arguing alot more then a few weeks ago I got tired of fighting without realizing that I was the one to blaime for the whole thing I decided we should go on a break. well the entire time I was pulling away from her hoping that if i detached myself so that when we Now after a month of this she pulklked away and went on a date with another man kissing him talking about how she likes him but she is still leary about him. Ive always been a hardass from the military I tried not to show emotions well when she left me I died I cried like I didnt know I was capable of. Now we still see each other almost everyday we cuddle we talk hold hands but still doesnt want to be with she said shes tired of being hurt and that I will have to change first and even then not 100% sure she can take me back BUT she says she wants to be with me and loves me very much....What do I do to get her back?
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reader, carebare  +, writes (11 December 2009):
Oh wow... This sounds identical to my and my ex's situation. You do have to try to be what she needs you to be. When arguments start, try to figure out what the problem is and stop doing it. You basically have to prove to her that she's safe with you. It's not a quick and easy solution because there isn't a quick and easy solution but if you really care about her, work on it because she's already told you that she wants to be with you eventually, and that's half the battle.
Hope that helps.
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