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writes:I just left my Alcoholic husband with my 2 kids. I moved from Washington state to Michigan for him cause he said that everything would get better. I have been fighting him with this disease for 5 years. Finaly after him driving with the kids drunk I had it. Well I had no where to go but the in-laws house and they fully support me and my kids. But I dont know where to go from here. my job does not make enough to support my kids. and I am so scared to do it on my own. I really want to go back but I know i cant untill he shows a great difference and improvments. Are there any resources that I can use to be able to take care of my kids and myself..... dont want to take advantage of my in-laws kindness.
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (12 July 2010):
 These folks might be able to help:
http://www.afgmichigan.addr.com/
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2010): I went through a similar situation and it is a very , very difficult choice to make when there are small children involved. I applaud you for our strength. Driving the children around while intoxicated is a deadly thing to do. He may never step up and do what is necessary or he might. My husband never did. Take life one day at a time as this is going to be challenging times. Allow family to step up and help you. I am very imressed with his parents kindness..Best of luck to you and your kids and I hope it all works out..
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reader, The old Man? +, writes (11 July 2010):
 Realizing that you live in Michigan, I "hear" that the states economy isn't the greatest.
I understand and support you completely as to why you do not want for you or your kids to live in that environment. I'm too familiar with living around alcoholism and addiction issues. You made the right choice! It seem sooo many women are caught up in the situation that you are. I wish my mother would have had the resources available back then that are available now.
Perhaps you could try the local DHS office. (Department of Human Services)Unless there has been violence, that would be my only suggestion. If violence is an issue, I believe there are avenues available for that. At least in my neck of the woods there are many places for women to go.
Good luck, I wish for you the best!
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