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female
age
41-50,
*ustDon'tKnow
writes:Help Please!!!So here goes...at this point I'm feeling very helpless. I just found out that my husband of 9 years had a sexual relationship with another women and now she's pregnant... around 5 months. The sad thing about this it that this same thing happend 8 years ago as well..as a result he has an 8 year old daughter outside the marriage (we have 3 together ourselves). Over time I've been able to get over the first affair but this just seems worse to me. And hey to top it off I'm 4 months pregnant.....I have this sense of hopelessness that won't leave me. I feel like I'm to blame because he was feeling neglected, like I wasn't doing enough to make him feel like a man. I know that best thing to do would be to leave him but under all the heartache and pain I still love him. I know that people can't tell you how to live ones life but I could sure use some advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2009): Get to know this woman, and have her move in- that way he can pay for both kids and go sleep with her when he feels like it. At least this way you'll KNOW what's going on, and the two of you can be in control. This pig needs a pen....
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