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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I met this girl 9 months ago, and we had class together several times a day, everyday for that entire semester. I started to develop infatuation for her around midterm, but never had the chance to express myself due to exams and other stuffs. So, the semester ended and we went our separate ways over the summer.When school started again this Fall, I could only meet her only about twice a week. Every time we met while walking across campus between classes, we exchanged a brief stare at each others, and that's pretty much it. I'm pretty sure that she had (hopefully still have) feelings for me. But lately, she's been avoiding me (or at least trying to).I know I've screwed up my chance with this girl pretty bad, but is there something I can/should do now?If I was to confront her, how can I do it in the least inconspicuous way that's not putting both sides in awkward moments? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (30 September 2011):
 It doesn't really mean that you have screwed things up at all. If you feel that she might like you as well then you need to try now before you regret it again later on. Instead of just going up to her and confessing your feelings for her you should try something else so that it is not awkward for the both of you. Just start slowly by trying to talk to her more even a friendly hello and asking her how she is. Then once that is done just ask her would she like to catch a movie with you sometime. Just see what she says and work things from there.
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