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writes:okay so guy and i been together for a while i heard rumors of cheating and i asked him and he finally tld me he didnt do anything but he did kiss one girl during our break which i dont really care for bc we were on a break! now i told him today that i am waiting fo rhim, him and i have been togehter fo rmany years now and the thing is our bond is very much inseperable except my insecurities led him to despise me and cause dhim to want to "be alone"...i know he needs time and i know it sbetetr t let him go now if i need him or want him in the long run, it hurts and sucks but im trying to be strong but the thing is the hurt huRTS! it is so SUCKY! my question really is, i wonder if ill ever get over it? imagining him in the same house i went to over n over again and cooked for him and made love to him in the same bed with, i feel some other girl is gogin to take my spot. he told me i was the first girl he ever said i loev u 2 so then why do this?! he told me he needs to be alone and doesnt wanan be wid anyone if he isnt with them 100% so i said ok. it is fair but i mean his entire family says he is doing wrong yet he still does this?! makes me wonder!!! i knwo he wont find a girl like me im 100% sure, but i also wont find someone like him :"( he was my first everything too!!!! and im confident in that he will come back someday but until that day idk how to focus?!
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reader, SweetindianGirl +, writes (25 September 2010):
SweetindianGirl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey!!!! meehh! I do not wish to keep him as a friend i dont believe in that, you cannot be friends with someone you once loved intimately and expect everything to work out, no matter how much i want him, being a friend is definitely not my option! :) but i am going to keep a life away form his.
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reader, meeeeh +, writes (25 September 2010):
i know it hard right now, and trust me i have my problums aswell, but you cant do much in this situatuion except be conciderate. hang out with him, and be friends for now. you can even get a boyfriend, and see what happens. but dont drop him comletely, yet keep a life away from him. go out and have fun with friends, and good luck!
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