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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have 2 really good friends; best friends, I suppose. They're a married couple with a toddler and I'm a single mom. Our kids play together and my friend, "Beth" watches my daughter for me, while I work. We are like family, truly. "David" and I work together and, tonight, I had to give him a ride home, because "Beth" had their car and our kids, and it was late. "David" has long-time had a fantasy that involves all three of us, and he brought it up tonight, before we left work. It's something I may have considered several months ago, before we were all such great friends, but now it's not worth the risk. So anyway, he kissed me, and I kissed him back, and she is very suspicious about why we took so long to get home. I don't know what to tell her...It's important to mention that the "threesome" was originally her idea, but she is in the same place I am, now, and we realize it's not a good idea. When he kissed me, a co-worker said, "You should get your wife involved" and he said, "She is involved." It sort of made me think she put him up to this...to entice me to come home with him/them. But clearly, by her reaction to our tardiness, this was not the case. There's a strong possibility that he will tell her about it...what should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2008): Firstly, are you sure she suggested having a 3-some? Secondly, you should probably discuss this with BOTH of them first, rather than jump in and potentially wreck a marriage. Don't dabble and claim ignorance. You are potentially causing great long term damage. Grow up and take responsibility for your actions. If you want a 3-some then discuss it with the people who will be involved in the 3-some!
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