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writes: i have been with my girlfriend for two years and we have a son together. it was going great until about 1 1/2 years into it when we started bickering alot and arguing constantly. we broke up recently but decided it was too hard to be apart. but i still feel as if we are together for our son. i think i'm 70% there for our son's upbringing. a few nights ago i was out clubbing when i saw an old female friend and we got chatting. i walked her home and ended up kissing her passionately. since then i have done nothing but think of her and only her. i keep imagining being with her instead of my current girlfriend and everything seems better. i thought i would feel guilty about cheating on my girlfriend but i don't one bit, and wonder if i still love her or not.
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reader, bonym  +, writes (20 August 2006):
 typo. "Cannot" it should say on line one not cannos!!! Ever so sorry.
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reader, bonym +, writes (20 August 2006):
My friend, I cannos possibly tell you if you love your girlfriend but you need to ask yourself why you kissed another lady. Its obvious that you like this other girl and maybe your relationship has run its course with your girlfriend, but you need to start telling your girlfriend what you are feeling and whether you want to make a go of the relationship. Good luck. xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2006): no you don't love your girlfriend if you did then you wouldn't of even thought of kissing another woman also you would be feeling guilty.I think that you and your girlfriend have driven each other away because of the bickering and that you are only together for the sake of your son and now this new woman has come along she is probably a breath of fresh air to you and makes you feel alive again and brought some excitement into your life and that's why you think about her constantly,however it is not fair to keep this from your girlfriend i think you should sit down and be honest with her-everything will be fine.
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