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writes:what should i do if i broke up with this guy a while back and i started to go out with this other guy and i might have kissed him a few times ... then i got back with the other guy and it bothers him that i kissed the other guy becuz he remained faithful. he wants to get back at me by either kissing another girl or just me makking up for it it suppose to make him feel better since it bothers him..im stuck in between somthing kuz if he kissses another girl while were together its over.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2007): WEll, in a way, I could almost relate with your bf, because my hubby had recently told me that he thinks he still loves his ex gf that he hasn't seen in over 10 yrs, and talks about him going to see her to make sure she is really what he wants. Meaning that if they kiss, have sex, anything like this and he decides that he still wants to be with me, I would want some sort of revenge. It's really hard to think of right now though, as it hasn't happened yet. I think honestly though, if I were him, he shouldn't have gotten back with you!!
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reader, Royofthe Rovers  +, writes (14 April 2007):
 Revenge is a natural reaction, but it is how you deal with emotion that what matters.
It is ok to feel jealous and revengful, but to actually carry out something like that is bang out of order.
If he loves you he must learn to bury this feeling and start to build his trust in you again.
You have done nothing really wrong, you say you were split up when this happenend so the line was drawn through the relationship, but only you can know that.
Understand that even tho you were split up, what you done has hurt him, BUT he has to learn that it was only a kiss and not more, which would of been a whole lot worse.
He needs to put it behind him if he wants the relationship between you and him to work.
Goodluck..
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2007): Since you had kissed another guy whilst on a break with each other he is not being fair by suggesting that he gets back at you by kissing another girl whilst you two being together. He's not being fair. If he was so bothered by it why did he get back with you. Dump him, he isn't worth it.
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