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writes:so me and my boyfriend eric have been going out for about a month and he's kinda been a bad boyfriend and he doesn't hold my hand and walk me to my classes he's not used to doing any of that stuff, and i always cry over him. ppl always tell me he's grabbing chicks ass's and tits. and yes, i talked to him bout it and he told me Not to listen to other ppl and that i should learn to trust him. i was mad at him and on a friday i cried alll day,. and he felt so bad and he couldn't go to homecoming cuz his mom wouldn't let him. and Homecoming was the next day and my friend erika calls me last minute the day of homecoming and said her brother whos a junior wants to go with me and i said ok cuz we were going as friends, and so we are at the dance and erika tells me that her brother likes me and wanted to kiss me by the end of the dance...and he was gonna ask me out. but all i could think bout was my bf...but then again i was mad at him and all this shit. and so me and her brother were slow dancing and erika was like i dare u to kiss him!!! and idk how but me and her bro did and after it i felt so fucking bad no joke...i regretted it 100% no lies. then my boyfriend was txting me saying how much he fucking loves me and i realize how much he loved and care for me and so monday i telll my boyfriend Eric in the morning right away and he said he forgives me cuz i've forgiven him for alot of stuff like grabbing gurls asses and tits, and i asked him if he was gonna break up with me and he said no i love you to much to break up with you...and later the next day i asked him and he said idk i mean i love you Alot but ppl are telling me to break up with you, but he says he's just confused right now and his brother even telling him to break up with me and ppl are callin me a hoe and idk wat to do i mean i reallly seriously love this guy and i made a huge mistake.
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (6 October 2011):
 you always cry over him and you keep getting told he grabs other girls body parts? he is making you miserable, thats why you kissed your friends brother. i think your boyfriend is bad for you. you will realise this one day
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reader, fi_the_tree +, writes (5 October 2011):
 Wait a minute, you've been with this Eric guy for a month... and you love him??? It's taken me the best part of 6 months to tell my past boyfriends that 'i love them' it just doesn't happen that quickly!!!
First of all, when you first confronted him about grabbing other girls bums and boobs, he denied that he'd done anything like that and urged you to trust him, then later on (after you had kissed this other guy) he admits to doing it!!! Wow, can anyone else hear the thousands of alarm bells ringing right now?!?!?!?!?!
This Eric guy doesn't love you at all! He's quite happy to have you on his arm, and then kop a feel of any other girl he likes! I mean, are you really that stupid or desperate to still want to be with this total loser?? Get a grip!!!
If you keep forgiving him for stuff like this, then he's just gonna think that you will forgive him for anything and everything, he'll think he can do anything he wants and you're only going to end up getting hurt!
You may think i'm being harsh, but i know what the last paragraph feels like, it eats away at me everyday, i'm so paranoid inside and i know it's not healthy for me to be like this, and i'm dealing with it as best i can thanks to good friends and my mum.
Dump Eric, you can find a guy who is willing to hold your hand and walk you to class, without feeling up other girls along the way...
Best of luck...
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