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I keep trying to date her but things don't work out and now she's ignoring me!

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Question - (13 July 2013) 4 Answers - (Newest, 13 July 2013)
A male Kenya age 36-40, *hristalzzz writes:

i dated this girl for 3 weeks long time ago in the year 2008,i embarrassed her in front of her friends but she dint leave me,later on at the 3rd week i proposed to her and told her i like her but she told me she has a boy friend and she is going to university and she does not like me,so i left her alone and went on my own.

later on i hit on her friend unintentional the same friend whom i embarrassed her in front but she turned me down,so i moved on with my life.later on i met her in church and greeted her,she kinda joked "if i dint embarrass her in front her girlfriend she would be mine,so 5 months down the line i approached her again and she agreed to date me,she gave me a very hard time but promised to date me but i was very mad i lost hope and since life was stressing me i broke it off with her so later on i went to work at a very embarrassing job she suddenly caught me there i was deeply embarrassed so a few days later i quit my job and got another job so after 5 months i called her and tried to get her back to me but she ignored me very much.

After one year i met her and she kind off hinted that she missed me but i was so destroyed emotionally due to her ignorance and my bad reputation so ignored it.so after two years i called her back again and asked her if she has a boyfriend but she hesitately replied she has one but i still try to pursue her in directly so i called her recently she hanged up on me..please tell me what to do

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2013):

Well, I think she likes you.

She just can't make up her mind because you also have given her mixed signals.

If you like her, man up and tell her but be consistent.

No more playing games, Otherwise, everything will be put to waste.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2013):

I have another question kindly help me again; I met this girl at my brothers party, she was very cute the next day after we hang out and she left I asked her number from my brother and my brother called and asked her if she doesn't mind me having it and she agreed to and she was cool.So I got the number and texted her but she didn't bother to reply. .so I figured she was not interested in anything about me. .A month later i heard she was asking my number bt i had but i left for Dubai ,she kept asking for my number so I called her for the first time and she was very cool, the next time I called she was a total bitch and kinda pushed me aside claiming she has a boyfriend and she really liked him and I should chase other chicks, using her own words 'an Arab lady to be exact' so I tossed her to the side. A month later she searched me on Facebook and sayed she missed me, but ignored her and told her that I have another chic so we parted ways and I moved on after a one month I later reached out to her on Facebook on a friendly way and we talked really good. a month later she reached out to me and we started talking and she sayed she was missing me so told her I will call her and she said she was excited..so help me understand her intensions

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2013):

I think she's in love with you hahaha.

Just kidding. I think your inconsistent showing your affection for her.

Sometimes inconsistency makes a girl think twice whether she's going to take you seriously or not so seriously.

This girl, seems like not easy.

She's not afraid to let go. To me, the way you tell your story she's the type of girl who will take you down.

I should know.

Well, if you really like her, like you think your so into her and she's worth it. Well work hard for it. remember No guts no glory.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2013):

I think she's in love with you hahaha.

Just kidding. I think your inconsistent showing your affection for her.

Sometimes inconsistency makes a girl think twice whether she's going to take you seriously or not so seriously.

This girl, seems like not easy.

She's not afraid to let go. To me, the way you tell your story she's the type of girl who will take you down.

I should know.

Well, if you really like her, like you think your so into her and she's worth it. Well work hard for it. remember No guts no glory.

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