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I keep thinking that my boyfriend will leave me for someone better. How can I stop thinking like this?

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Question - (21 May 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 21 May 2007)
A female United Kingdom, *uzie767 writes:

this is a question to guys.

ive been with my boyfriend for about 4 and a half years now. we live together and have a small baby.

this is going to sound stupid but no matter how much he tells me he loves me and cares for me i just dont believe him.

we have had our problems in the past- and our relationship is very unsteady. also he is 11 years older than me and has had a lot of relationships

i just cant past the idea that i dont really mean anything to him and im just another in a long line. i cant get over the idea that he wants to be with other women or loves the idea of getting a lapdance from a stranger or having one night stands

a lot of things that have happened in our relationship have put these things in my mind but would be too long to go into

i just need to hear from a guy that all men dont just think about sex with lots of sexy women and that they are satisfied with a loving relationship and dont think about going elsewhere

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A male reader, DV1 United States +, writes (21 May 2007):

DV1 agony auntIt sounds like you don't WANT to believe him. Sometimes all you can do is take things for face value, and let them happen. Life's occurrences are beyond everyone's control, so let it run it's course. Keep the faith and everything wil be fine.

DV1

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